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How do I stop procrastinating?

Procrastination is a challenge that many of us face, particularly when we are in leadership roles. It’s something that can subtly creep into our daily routines, often hindering our ability to think strategically, make decisions, and lead effectively. However, procrastination is not simply about laziness or a lack of capability; it’s rooted in deeper emotional and psychological triggers that can be addressed with the right approach.


What Is Procrastination?

At its core, procrastination is about delaying tasks without a rational reason. For many of us, the drive to delay can sometimes outweigh the motivation to take action. This tendency is not about avoiding work for the sake of avoiding it; rather, it’s often linked to feelings or fears that we haven’t fully explored or perfected the subject. The key is recognising that procrastination isn’t about our abilities or worth but a signal to dig deeper into what’s causing the delay.


Emotional and Psychological Triggers Behind Procrastination

Procrastination is often triggered by emotional or psychological factors. 

For example:

  • Fear of failure: We may avoid tasks because we’re anxious about not doing them well.
  • Seeking immediate pleasure: We tend to choose tasks that give us instant gratification rather than face the discomfort of something more challenging.
  • Feeling overwhelmed: Large, vague tasks can feel daunting, leading us to procrastinate rather than confront them head-on.

These emotional triggers are powerful, but once we identify them, we can address them more effectively. Understanding why we procrastinate is the first step in overcoming it.


Procrastination and Strategic Leadership

As leaders, especially those in strategic roles, we are particularly prone to procrastination. Large, complex tasks – ones that feel shapeless or overwhelming – are often the ones we avoid. When faced with these, it can be tempting to retreat into more familiar, tactical tasks that feel easier or more manageable. However, avoiding strategic tasks only delays progress and can keep us from moving forward on important decisions.

Personally, I’ve found that procrastination tends to arise when tasks are either dull or overwhelming. These are often the tasks I avoid or delay despite knowing they are essential to moving forward. If we don’t confront procrastination directly, it can prevent us from making the necessary decisions that drive our strategic goals forward.


The Importance of Self-Compassion

One of the most important things to remember when dealing with procrastination is the need for self-compassion. We can be our own harshest critics, but procrastination is not a reflection of our capabilities. It’s more often a response to deeper emotional triggers. Instead of feeling guilty or frustrated, it’s important to approach ourselves with understanding. What’s causing the delay? Is it fear, overwhelm, or something else? By being kind to ourselves and exploring the root causes, we can approach procrastination with greater clarity and effectiveness.


Practical Strategies to Combat Procrastination

If procrastination is something you struggle with, there are a couple of strategies that can make a real difference:

The “Eat the Frog” Method: This method is based on the idea of tackling the most difficult or important task of the day first. It might seem daunting, but once you get the hardest task out of the way, everything else feels easier. You’ll gain a sense of accomplishment that will fuel the rest of your workday.

The Pomodoro Technique: This is a time-management method where you work in short, focused bursts (typically 25 minutes), followed by a brief 5-minute break. This helps you break up your day into manageable chunks and keeps your focus sharp. By using this technique, you’re less likely to feel overwhelmed, as it makes the work feel more manageable.

Both techniques help create structure and accountability in your day, making it easier to confront tasks that would otherwise be put off.


The Role of Motivation and Reward

Another aspect to keep in mind is the role of motivation. When we connect tasks to our intrinsic motivation, it becomes easier to start. Additionally, small rewards for completing tasks can help create positive reinforcement. Whether it’s a short break, a cup of coffee, or simply taking a moment to acknowledge your progress, rewards can help maintain momentum and reduce the emotional resistance to starting tasks.


The Key Takeaway

Procrastination is often misunderstood. It’s not a sign of laziness but rather a signal that we need to explore what’s happening beneath the surface. It’s crucial to recognise the emotional and psychological triggers that contribute to procrastination and address them directly. Once we understand the root causes, we can implement strategies, like “Eat the Frog” or the Pomodoro Technique, that help us stay focused and productive.

The key takeaway is this: by practising self-compassion and using strategies that break down large, daunting tasks into smaller, more manageable pieces, we can overcome procrastination. This doesn’t just improve our productivity; it enhances our strategic capacity and helps us lead with clarity, purpose, and focus.

So, the next time you find yourself procrastinating, take a step back, identify what’s really going on, and use the tools and strategies available to you. By doing so, you’ll be able to break free from procrastination and make decisions that move your leadership and your organisation forward.


Leadership Coaching with Gemma Bullivant

If you find that procrastination keeps getting in the way or you’re seeking more clarity and focus in your leadership, coaching might be exactly what you need. Sometimes, we all need a bit of support to understand the deeper reasons behind procrastination and to develop strategies that help us move forward with confidence.

As a leadership coach, I work with leaders to uncover what’s really holding them back – whether it’s self-doubt, feeling overwhelmed, or the weight of tough decisions. Together, we can explore the emotional triggers behind your actions and work on practical, personalised solutions that help you lead with greater purpose, clarity, and ease.

Coaching isn’t about fixing what’s broken. It’s about unlocking your potential and helping you reach new heights in your leadership journey. If you’re ready to stop procrastinating and start making decisions that truly move both you and your organisation forward, I’d love to help.

Feel free to reach out if you’d like to learn more about how coaching can support you. Let’s work together to break through the barriers and create the momentum you need to thrive.


The Strategic Leader Podcast

To dive deeper into this topic and hear more practical tips and strategies, make sure to check out the full podcast episode. It’s packed with insights to help you understand procrastination and take actionable steps to overcome it. Let’s break through those barriers and create the momentum you need to thrive.